FYI - I've begun labeling posts to differentiate the voice I use. When writing to Lily, it will be labeled at the bottom as "To Lily" (duh). And when it's to Finn, obviously it will be "To Finn". Otherwise, it's "generally speaking."
And despite not being able to change the url of the site, the new name is "And then there were four..." which needs a new masthead. It's in my head and needs to be designed...when there's time. Someday.